the human condition

I've heard this statement before and I'm just now considering the validity of it. Sayings, like the one mentioned above, usually have some truth to it. Much like stereotypes, they wouldn't exist or be popular if they were completely false. So let me elaborate what it means to me and what it may imply. Guys who befriend females either do so because they fall prey to the friend zone or because they legitimately want to get to know her better. Either way, the favorable end result is coitus. I suppose they are some exceptions to that but those who would fall under such exceptions are scarce, thus I will not mention them at the moment. Now those who get friend zoned can go on being just friends. However, most guys will opt to just go for it, and if denied, move on... without the friendship. I know that annoys a lot of girls but if I can offer any advice... get used to it, but give some a chance... once in awhile you'll meet a guy who doesn't think entirely with his dick. Going back to the saying in question... I had mention that people do choose to stay friends with a girl even if denied coitus. But I can almost guarentee that, no matter what a guy says, he will jump at the opportunity if given the chance. And its because the attraction will always be there, whether its purely physical, or a combination of things. There are of course factors that can alter how you feel about her over time, but for the most part if there aren't any radical changes, a guy will at least give it a shot.

So do women have to worry about guys with ulterior motives? Hell yeah. Is it impossible to have a guy friend that doesn't want to bang you? hmm... depends on how attractive you are, and I mean just physically. I think the only way it'd work, is to keep your distance when it comes to friendships with the opposite sex. Most of the times, the two people want separate things. This of course, leads to unfavorable situations.

Why then, do we knowingly participate in this mingling between sexes, even though there is a high risk of it being a complete failure? Well, simply... nothing ventured, nothing gained.