the human condition

So I met a girl outside of a club, she was by herself and she seemed to be crying... I asked her if she was alright and we started to talk. This is what I came up to say after she told me about her man..

"We learn how to treat women from many different sources... fathers, movies, friends, books, magazines, cultures and most importantly, women... just to name a few. And with traditional chivarly practically out the window, how do we properly treat a lady? People think its some crazy, complicated method but it seriously isn't. We all learned as children to treat others like how we wanted to be treated. And as old school as that sounds, that's really the fundamental of treating women. I know its difficult for some, having personally met people with issues on the matter. But if you lie, deceive, and cheat on a girl... what do you expect to happen in return? Not to say that if you are honest, faithful, and respectful, that things will always be dandy. Its just better to have those things reciprocated. And in the end of the day, its what all guys want... someone to be there with you, to care about you, and respect you. Even the most avid womanizers want those things, even if they don't have the courage to admit it. So why then are we surrounded by messed up situations and have friends with fucked up relationships?

Its because we are young, we have no idea what we want, and a lot of us are still struggling to figure out who we are as individuals and what we mean to others... "

...I continued to tell the girl that she needed to be patient, and that she too is similiar to us guys. That we all need to take time to learn ourselves before committing to learn about someone else. That in time, she'll meet someone who will want to care for her as much as she wants to care for him.

she wanted to take me home that night... I told her that it wouldn't cure her sorrows. She said, "I don't care."


-edit: Maybe it wasn't clear, the thing in quotes is what I told the girl, as accurately as I could remember it.